My guess is you’re a guy and you’re wondering what qualities that girls want guys to have.
Trust me, you are not alone on this one. I asked myself same question and even as you’re reading this post, many other men are asking same question. Consider yourself lucky to be here at this time because in this post lies the answer to the question you’ve asked.
Out of curiosity, I had a chat with a few ladies about the qualities that girls want to see in young men, and the response I got from them will blow your mind. Those astounding remarks are what I will share with you in this post.
So, read on…
Earlier, I published a post on what women want from their men. That had a lot to do with folk in an existing relationship. In this article, we will have a dive into the qualities or characteristics that girls generally look out for in guys they aren’t yet in a relationship with.
So, let’s get down to it…
Girls desire guys who show some form of strength which could be physical, emotional or in character. Now, let me break it down further.
- Physical Strength – Ladies expect guys to be strong and also show it by helping out with some home chores and activities that require some form of physical energy like helping to lift heavy objects when necessary.
- Emotional Strength – It’s only normal for ladies to get overwhelmed by certain life events, like the loss of a loved one, etc. As a man, you’re expected to muster some emotional strength and come through for them them in that low estate. Being able to respond to situations other than react is the key.
- Strength of Character – This entails having strong values and ability to do what’s right even when others are not looking. Every girl wants a man who stands his ground to do right even in the face of pressure.
Loyalty is one of the most important qualities you can have in a relationship. It requires that you do not take your partner’s trust for granted. Girls want to know that they can trust you to stay true to them and no one else. They want to know that you would not frolic with every other girl that crosses your path.
So, if you’re not exactly the kind of man that’s cool with having one chic, you should also know that loyalty counts for something in a relationship and among the female folk. Best thing to do is, stay true to your girl and do right by her.
Being cute and charming is cool and every guy should endeavor to look his best. Good looks can get you up close to beautiful girls but grey matter is a better charm. Girls appreciate guys who bring more than just good looks to the table. Smart and intelligent guys always get the good girls. You should also know that emotional intelligence is a better asset than logical intelligence in relationships.
4. Physical Attraction
Physical attraction is important in any romantic relationship.The absence of attraction could mean lack of affection and respect for your partner.
Girls are attracted to men’s masculinity and are even more attracted to guys with traditional male features like broad shoulders, etc.
Sometimes a girl may be attracted to you but you don’t feel the attraction too. In order not to be a loner in any relationship, girls always keep this in check. They want to know that you want them just just as much as they want you, or even more.
5. Good Personal Hygiene
A good personal hygiene is important for your overall health and well-being and is also good for your relationship. No girl wants to hang around a guy who makes her feel uncomfortable in his company.
Just so you know, taking proper care of your body pays off in more ways than you can imagine. A man who pays attention to his looks and smells nice is a charmer. So, get a nice perfume, smell nice, have a good haircut or shave. You should also know that good hygiene reduces your chances of falling ill.
That’s not all. Read on.
6. Great Sense of Humor
Amidst several other qualities girls look forward to seeing in a guy, lies the ability to strike up a decent conversation and also make them laugh in the process. Your ability to make a girl laugh, to a great extent, lies in your discerning of what tickles her fancy, and using it to your advantage.
The post you just read did justice to the top qualities girls look out for in guys. My take is, always know that human wants are insatiable and different girls will want to meet men with certain qualities. But whatever you do, just be yourself. Keep doing what makes you you and the right girl will definitely like you for it. Trust me, there’s a girl out there looking to meet someone as cool as you.
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