Making a relationship work involves many things. Be it a casual relationship or serious one like marriage or one that’s headed in that direction. One of the things a relationship requires of you is getting to know your spouse on a closer level. Here, you will read about top five things your lady expects you to know about her.
So, what does she want me to know about her that I don’t already know?
Not to worry, I have you covered. Just have a read:
Birthdays often remind us of how and when we came into being. For some men, birthdays are just like every other day of our lives. But that does not hold true for most women. In fact, a lady’s birthday means so much to her and the one way she shows it is by celebrating with friends, co-workers, family or that special person in her life. And being the man in her life, the last thing she expects of you is to forget her birthday. Forgetting your spouse’s birthday could lead to undesirable hitches in your relationship (which is what you just do not want).
So, to save yourself the unnecessary headache, get to know your spouse’s birthday and save the date as soon as you can. Create a reminder for it if you are not so sure you will remember the date. And when the day comes, be sure to get her some good gifts, but more than that, give her sweet memories to hold on to.
The Day She Said Yes To You
That’s right! This may come to you as a surprise. But yeah! The day you asked her out or the day she finally said yes to you never leaves her memory, especially if you treat her right and she is deep in love with you.
Your lady expects you to remember the day, the place and the exact words you said to her that made her say yes to you. You may have forgotten all about it but trust me, she doesn’t; neither should you.
Yeah, but wait…there’s more.
Her Favorite Color
Yes, this one. Most men pay no attention to the color their spouse likes the most and are thereby oblivious of their spouse’s favorite color (I just hope you’re not one of them, lol).
Knowing your lady’s favorite color puts you in her good books. Her favorite color isn’t just one of those things she expects you to know. You should know this by heart. It is an information you should have at your fingertips as it will help you make right choices when you need to get her surprise gifts.
Asking her what color she likes most only when you need it will make you come off as one who’s not detailed and insensitive (and that’s not how you’d want to be perceived). So, get to know what things your lady expects you to know about her.
Her Likes and Dislikes
I know this may sound like a cliche but take this seriously. Do your actions or inaction get her irritated? Does she get mad at you often? If yes, my guess is you probably do not know what turns her off. You can’t possibly have a smooth relationship with someone you do not understand. It’s okay to know what things or acts put her in a good mood but knowing and avoiding what turns her off is also as important. Get to know her temperament as it will guide you on how to relate with her. Funny thing is, you may never get to know some of these things till you have a heart to heart conversation with her.
Sounds good, right?
Also Read: What Do Women Want From Their Men?
Her Sweetest Memory
We’ve all been there. We’ve had those experiences that make us grin when they come to mind. Those memories we treasure and can’t wait to share with our partners.
Your sweetest memory could be your experience at prom, your first kiss, the day you graduated from high school, etc. Being that we like to share or tell these experiences to that special someone, your baby expects you to know what her sweetest memory is, or at least share in them.
But wait…How do you know she wants me to know this?
It’s simple. The answer is in the smile she puts on her face when she is sharing those happy times with you. Being the man in her life, it is only cool if you’re the one she reminisces those happy moments with.
There you have it; the top five things your lady expects you to know about her. It’s also worthy of note that the points given in this post are not the only information your lady wants you to know about her.
What are other things you think ladies want you to know about them which I didn’t mention here. We love comments. Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section.
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